In the early days of TV, there was a popular comedy show known for its far-fetched gags. Among the cast of characters was a burly man who had an annoying habit of jabbing people with his finger. Finally one of the other characters could no longer stand it.
"I'm ready for him," he boasted to a friend. "I put a stick of dynamite in my vest pocket, and the next time he jabs me he's going to get his hand blown off."
To cherish a vengeful feeling is like having a stick of dynamite hidden in your pocket. Such a volatile attitude may trigger explosions that not only do irreparable damage to other people but to you as well.
In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus warned His audience about the damaging effects of anger (Mt. 5:23-24). Paul urged his readers to get rid of "all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking" (Eph. 4:31). And God says, "Vengeance is Mine, I will repay" (Rom. 12:19).
When you are angered by the inconsiderate or malicious actions of another, saturate your emotional dynamite with prayer. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you forget any thought of retaliation and help you instead to "overcome evil with good" (v.21). — Vernon C. Grounds
When wrongs to me from others come,
Lord, teach me what to say;
May I love those who persecute,
And for them always pray. --HGB
Revenge is a two-edged sword that wounds the one who wields it.