Someone has said that the best way to destroy an enemy is to make him your friend. This is consistent with Christ's command that we are to love those who hate us (Mt. 5:44).

Our Lord gave three reasons we should love our adversaries. First, when we show them kindness, we are imitating the heavenly Father, who "makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust" (v.45).

Second, we are to love our foes because there's no reward for loving only those who love us (v.46).

Third, gracious treatment of our enemies sets us apart from the ungodly. Jesus said, "If you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others?" (v.47). Genuine concern for all should be a distinguishing mark of a Christian (1 Jn. 4:7-21).

Obeying Jesus' command to love our enemies doesn't come naturally, however. Often our first response is to retaliate. But when we choose to display an attitude of love and helpfulness toward those who despise us, we may actually break down their hostility and eventually win their favor.

Yes, the best way--the Christlike way--to destroy an enemy is to make him your friend!  — Richard De Haan